I’m a divorced woman in my late 40s with a child in college, and for the past 2 1/2 years, I’ve been in a wonderful, loving relationship with a man I’ll call “Matt.” He and his sister, “Martha,” are ...

The woman — who recounted her story on a community site — said that she was rethinking the trip and wanted advice Erica Gerald Mason is a programming editor at PEOPLE, where she serves as the ...